Sunday's regular contractions were not the real deal evidently. I decided to just go to bed at 11:30 because we weren't sure if they'd keep progressing or not, but the contractions went to sleep too I guess. Every time I would wake up I'd notice a contraction, but just like every other night. In the morning they were far apart and irregular again. So, unfortunately there's still no baby.
Now I just need to vent for a bit because I have so many crazy emotions going on right now. I feel so anxious for Baby Z to be here with me, I feel really sad that my mom is probably going to miss it and maybe my Dad too, and mostly I'm starting to get really afraid (like, more scared than I've been in a long time) that I will literally be all by myself when he makes his debut. Preston's had the last week and a half off of school and work, but has to go back on Monday next week which will start his busy schedule and my Dad leaves on Monday too. So, if this kiddo doesn't come in the next few days and decides to be right on time or late then I'll be coming home to a house that will be filled with me trying to recover, Brayden needing attention and a new little baby needing basically everything. Last week would have been PERFECT timing. At least on my watch. I don't want to sound like I will have zero help from Preston because he is a wonderful helper and husband. But, he has to do what he has to do. Which would be working and school.
Besides all those feelings that make me wish the baby would come already, I'm really loving the anticipation of how and when the baby will come and I want to have it naturally without being induced like I was with Brayden. I never got to start my own labor with him and I'm excited for it to happen. I also still feel so strongly that my Heavenly Father is well aware of me and my situation and that the babe will come at the perfect time in the grand scheme of things. It's just nice when that time table lines up with mine. But, to be quite honest, other than not having any help, I don't care if the baby is late even. I would never ever had guessed he would be, but it won't bother me. I just hope that I handle everything well. I know I can do anything and everything required of me because the Lord truly will provide a way. But, it doesn't mean that I can do it easily or that I won't mess up and try too hard to rely on myself or focus on what I'm not doing right. I think that's what's striking the most fear into me is that I'm starting to realize that at this point, my Mom basically won't be here to help even if I start labor now and Preston and my Dad will only be able to help through the weekend. So it's looking like what's "best" is going to be a growing experience for me and not as easy as I was planning.
OK, enough venting. Yes, I'm scared and excited at the same time but I know everything will work out. Thanks for listening. . . I just need to get it out sometimes.
PS- more regular contractions going on as we speak. About 8 minutes apart. But, I'm really not getting hopes up. Just keeping track.
4 comments:
You KNOW that I am here for you. I know you feel alone and scared with all of this, but PLEASE remember your wonderful ward family. When the whole miscarriage thing happened, the YW ladies were right there when I needed them and I was so overwhelmed. Do not forget that it is OK to call someone if you need help! I wish I could be there during the day to help but on the weekends, every Saturday, I will come over if you want me too :-) And pLease, bring Brayden over here during the day to get some peace and quiet. NOT kidding. Bring him over for play dates because Brinley would love it and I'm sure he would too.
Ang, I love ya. Please don't forget that you have a huge support group here in FL!
Good luck! I hope he comes soon and that everything goes smoothly. I know you'll be a wonderful mother if 2. You're amazing.
Hang in there, Angie!! You have no idea how similar your experience is to mine! I was convinced Ella was coming early, had contractions like every night that seemed real and regular, just to have them stop when I went to bed! And I really didn't want to be induced! She came one day overdue and I ended up going in to get induced (although it turned out I was in labor already). Anyway, the point is you will make it! Hang in there and things will work out perfectly for you. Can't wait to see pics of your cute baby! Good luck!
Angie, If you need us, we are here. Please just give us a call. I can finagle the car on most days now. My kids love playing with Brayden and always bring his name out first when we say we are going to play with friends. We would love to give you breaks whenever you need them. Good luck at the hospital.
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